You've decided you need couples counseling, or at least that you want to find out more. But before committing to anything, you want to know what you're getting into. That's exactly what the free video call is for.
Here's what we're trying to accomplish in those 35 to 45 minutes together.
First: You're Evaluating Me
The most important thing that happens on this call is that you get a sense of who I am. I think I'm good at this work — but I'm not the right fit for everyone, and I'd rather you know that upfront than find out three sessions in.
What you need from a couples therapist is someone you genuinely like, someone you can respect, and someone you can imagine opening up to even when it's uncomfortable. That's a personal call, and this conversation is your chance to make it. Pay attention to how you feel during the call, not just what's said.
Second: I'm Learning About Your Situation
I'll ask you to tell me a bit about what's going on in the relationship. This serves two purposes. First, I need to confirm that what you're dealing with falls within my area of expertise. I work exclusively with couples, and I want to make sure I can genuinely help you before we begin. Second, understanding where you are helps me direct you toward the right kind of counseling — whether that's standard couples therapy or discernment counseling, which is a different process designed for situations where one partner is uncertain about staying in the relationship.
Third: Deciding If We're a Good Fit
By the end of the call, we should both have a sense of whether working together makes sense. This isn't a sales conversation. If I don't think I can help you, I'll tell you — and I'll try to point you somewhere that can. If we do seem like a good fit, we'll talk about next steps.
How to Schedule
When you click to schedule, you'll fill out a brief form with some basic information — including confirming that you're in Michigan, since I work exclusively via telehealth within the state. You'll then be taken directly to my schedule to pick a time that works for both of you.
I need both partners on the call together. I do only one free consultation per couple, so it's important that this is a conversation we all have at the same time.
